Dear Princess Darby,

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost seven months. I can honestly say that I am very much in love.

There is a small problem I was hoping you could shed some insight on.

You see, he has this ex-boyfriend who keeps calling him and showing up at his house. All he ever does is try to talk my baby into breaking up with me.

Now, he is always telling me that he won't listen to him, but I'm just afraid that at some point we will fight over this. Then, the old boyfriend will stroll in at the wrong time, and my love will listen to him, because we are fighting at the time.

I honestly don't know what I would do if I lost him. He is everything to me. Is there anything else I can do? Please help me!
-
BloozBoi



Tuesday, August 12, 2003

Dear BloozBoi,

First of all, I apologize for the delay in answering you. Letters to "Dear Princess Darby" are answered in que.

In general, relationships are formed within the first 6 months to one year.

Issues, value differences, and general needs are usually identified, worked on, during this time.

Sometimes love has a blind eye, and we patiently wait for things to change. Although, waiting can turn into days, weeks, months, and years.

You have to decide what path you could take. This is between you and your partner. Perhaps both of you could approach this calmly and lovingly, and discuss your concerns.

We mortals can't control destiny or others. We can be aware of our own behavior, and responsible for the outcome of our own life.

My only question is: what would happen if you ever moved in together? Love maybe blind, but keep your eyes open!

Good Luck,

Princess Darby