Dear Princess Darby,

I am planning to get married soon, but have doubts about the outcome of the marriage, my future husband, and my soon to be in-laws. What should I do?

Doubtful Bride.



Dear Doubtful Bride,

Women wait with hopeful expectations all their life. We wait to be born, we wait to go to school, we wait to graduate, we wait for the "big Position", we wait for recognition, we wait for marriage, we wait for our first born, we wait to retire.

Don't wait. Reread your question. It's your decision. Make your choice now, don't wait for a final outcome which may land you in divorce court and misery.

I suggest you and your partner review your considerations, and perhaps seek professional counseling. Lay out your ground rules now which will influence your lives together later.

It's your choice, your life, your destiny. You are in the driver's seat. Make sure your decisions place you in the right road of life.

Good luck, and keep me abreast of your decision.

Princess Darby.