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Sex Tips for Gay Guys
by Dan Anderson

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Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin

You think you've got all the moves. And you may. But do you know the preferred moves, mores and man-pleasing tactics for a host of other gay types? From the Campus Queer to the Do-Me Queen, the Twelve Stepper to the Sugar Daddy, Dan Anderson unleashes his expertise to disclose the secret longings of a host of hotties. You'll learn to master such sure-fire tricks as the "Up, Twist, Over and Down", the "Twirl" and the "Head Rub." Anderson and his posse of urban adventurers have seen and done it all, and now they spill their great, gritty sex secrets between two hard covers.

But there's more in Sex Tips for Gay Guys than just hot, hard how-to information about how to be great in the sack. Anderson, with the skill of a master sociologist and the wit of a baby Paul Rudnick, paints a picture of gay rituals, mating and dating at the dawn of the new century. You'll recognize everyone you've dated--and a few you're get to meet--in this hilarious book.


Coauthor of the funny and hip Sex Tips for Straight Women from a Gay Man, Dan Anderson returns with hints for his less-experienced fellows, including advice on how to work a gay bar, how to dodge trolls, and how to decorate your apartment cheaply but with flair. There's less explicit sex talk here than the title suggests, but neophytes will appreciate learning a few new come-ons and some variations on the Princeton Belly Rub. A section rating the romantic and sexual viability of gay types, from Gym Bunny to Girleen to Bossy Bottom, is less helpful and mainly an opportunity for cracking jokes. Not one of the types turns out to be all-around wonderful, so the unwritten message is that if your date can be this easily categorized, he isn't worth the effort. Sex Tips for Gay Guys is light reading for the truck stop or the bubble bath. --Regina Marler


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Becoming a Hottie
Customer Rating: 4 out of 5 
Anderson, Dan. "Sex Tips for Gay Guys", St. Martin's Griffin, 2002.

Becoming a Hottie

Amos Lassen

I suppose Dan Anderson is a super lover and a powerful sex machine if he does all he writes about in "Sex Tips for Gay Guys". The book is full of all kinds of tips such as how to work the room, how to avoid the undesirable, how to avoid a tacky apartment and how to enter a room and light it up. All of us can use a little improvement but in many cases do not know where to begin. Much of the information is not so much about sex but more about learning to be and accept yourself.
This is a humorous course in building gay self esteem. Anderson looks at all aspects of dating and loving and there is always something new to learn here. There is a chapter for every sexual possibility and sexual position and for every kind of sex partner one could ever expect to have. It is a combination "how to" and fun book about a very personal subject.
Some have found the book insulting and I suppose it is to a certain degree if you are a sexual he-man. One criticism I have read is that the book promotes drinking (it does not say that you have to go to gay bars but it gives hints to do while there), that it promotes multiple partners (I don't see any promotion and I believe it says "should you find yourself with several partners"---it doesn't tell us how to find them, and it promotes drug use (which needs no promotion). I am not sure that the person who said that was reading the same book that I read.
There is really not a lot of new information here--it is just that this time it is all collected and written down in one book. I think the book is very clever and very, very funny. I think it is great when we can laugh at ourselves.


Steak Tips
Customer Rating: 3 out of 5 
I tried a sample of this book ergo reads like a one sided, seedless watermelon with en elementary aftertaste. Although ''Homoland'' was generously given to us in this book as a fictional guiding tool, there should be truths that lands like these exist. Ogunquit, ME, Unity, NH, Provinceton, MA, Providence, RH, are just a few to name.

Why?
Customer Rating: 3 out of 5 
I don't know what possessed me to buy this book. Don't waste your money. Not a lot of new information. I would get this at the library.

INSUTLTING...
Customer Rating: 1 out of 5 
This book is totally insulting to any gay man who has any sense of self-worth and pride. It pretends to be clever and witty, but in fact is mean spirited and totally lacking in anything of value. A TOTAL LOSER!

Irresponsible Advice
Customer Rating: 1 out of 5 
As a Registered Nurse, I was very concerned when I read this book. In fact, it made me so nauseated that I threw it in the trash.

The book subtly promotes drinking, social drug use, and multiple sex partners--talking about how much fun it is to go out and get plastered and go to work the next morning still intoxicated and how much fun it is to have random sexual encounters. The author does not address, however, how much fun it is to live with HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, Alcoholism, or any other complications that arise from living such an irresponsible lifestyle.

Folks, be yourselves. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you have to live/promote the stereotype that society holds of us. Be safe and have fun.

I do not recommend this book to anyone!




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